Handling Disputes

While most transactions on Steader go smoothly, occasionally issues arise. This guide helps you handle disputes professionally and protect your reputation.

Preventing Disputes

The best dispute is one that never happens. Follow these practices:

  • Accurate listings — Photos and descriptions should match what you deliver
  • Clear communication — Update order status promptly and message about any changes
  • Quality control — Only sell products you'd be proud to buy yourself
  • Fair policies — Be upfront about your practices for substitutions, refunds, or weather delays

When Issues Arise

Step 1: Respond Quickly

When a buyer contacts you with a concern:

  • Respond within 24 hours — Even if just to acknowledge their message
  • Stay calm and professional — Assume good intent
  • Listen first — Understand their concern fully before responding

Step 2: Assess the Situation

Common disputes involve:

  • Product quality or freshness
  • Incorrect items or quantities
  • Missed pickup/delivery
  • Miscommunication about order details
  • Damage during transport

Step 3: Offer a Fair Resolution

Consider these options:

  • Replacement — Offer to replace the item at next pickup/delivery
  • Partial refund — For minor quality issues or partial problems
  • Full refund — For significant issues or complete dissatisfaction

How to Process Refunds

All refunds must be processed through your Stripe dashboard:

  1. Log into dashboard.stripe.com
  2. Find the transaction in your payments list
  3. Click "Refund" to process that refund
  4. Add a note about why (for your records)
  5. Confirm the refund

Note: Refunds typically appear in the buyer's account within 5-10 business days. Always message the buyer on Steader to confirm you've processed their refund.

Steader Mediation

If you can't resolve an issue directly with the buyer:

For Payment Disputes (Chargebacks)

  • Handled entirely through Stripe
  • You'll receive email notification from Stripe when this occurs
  • Respond with evidence through Stripe dashboard
  • Include order details, messages, and delivery confirmation

For Non-Payment Disputes

  • Either party can request Steader's help
  • Report within 72 hours of delivery/pickup
  • We'll review messages and order details
  • Goal is fair resolution for both parties

Protecting Yourself

Document Everything

  • Take photos of orders before pickup/delivery
  • Save messages about special requests
  • Keep notes about regular customers' preferences
  • Screenshot important conversations

Set Clear Expectations

  • Include policies in your profile bio
  • Mention important details in product descriptions
  • Communicate pickup/delivery procedures clearly
  • Be specific about what you're selling (size, quantity, variety)

Know When to Walk Away

Some situations aren't worth the stress:

  • If a buyer is repeatedly difficult
  • When the dispute amount is minimal
  • If someone becomes abusive or threatening

In these cases, issue a refund and consider blocking the user. Notify Steader of any abusive behavior from another user.

Best Practices

DO:

  • Respond professionally, even if the buyer is upset
  • Take responsibility when appropriate
  • View disputes as learning opportunities
  • Follow through on promised resolutions
  • Document everything

DON'T:

  • Argue or become defensive
  • Make promises you can't keep
  • Ignore messages hoping they'll go away
  • Discuss disputes publicly
  • Process refunds outside of Stripe

Common Dispute Scenarios

"The eggs were broken"

Response: "I'm so sorry that happened! I pack carefully, but sometimes transport is rough. I'd be happy to replace them at our next pickup or issue a partial refund for the broken ones. What would you prefer?"

"This isn't what I ordered"

Response: "I apologize for the mix-up. Can you send me a photo of what you received? I'll make this right immediately with either the correct item or a full refund."

"The produce wasn't fresh"

Response: "I'm concerned to hear that. Everything was harvested [timeframe]. Can you describe what seemed off? I want to ensure you get the quality you expect from my farm."

"You never showed up for delivery"

Response: "I'm very sorry for the confusion. Let me check my delivery notes for today. Can you confirm your address and delivery window? I'll resolve this right away."

Remember

  • Most buyers are reasonable when treated with respect
  • Your reputation is built over many transactions — one dispute won't ruin it
  • Learning from disputes helps you improve
  • Sometimes a small loss prevents a bigger problem

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Remember: How you handle problems says more about your business than how you handle successes.

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